The Script that wasn’t

Strolling down the memory lane

between those slippery lines

a million pains for every laurel

but words are all ye see.

 

Blessed is this colossal book

with a plethora of stories-

be it a legend scrawled in blood and sweat,

or a calligraphic fable for the unborn future.

Or a fantasy scribbled by the wanderer,

and a neat victory for the ambitious!

A snapshot of abounding moments,

all here readers espy.

 

Beyond all the contrast howbeit,

One thing alike in the gloomiest of ‘em all-

The author wondered in regret – what if;

What if he produced the strokes he didn’t;

and filled the pages he didn’t;

with the freedom that came at a price,

but as hindsight would sadly reveal-

came always, nonetheless.

 

 


‘Thank God’

I was meeting a friend from college for coffee last weekend. It had been about a year since we last met, so there was a lot of catching up to do. After a long conversation, we left the shop.

A minute after we got out of the shop, she realized she was missing her phone. After the momentary panic followed by the pragmatic calm, we went back to the shop to look for it. Luckily, the waiter had noticed the phone lying on our table after we left, and had taken it to keep it safe.

My friend heaved a sigh of relief, turned to me and said “Thank God. That was a damn expensive phone.” We thanked the waiter, took the phone and left.

As I was going back home I was just wondering about the first words my friend had uttered as we found the phone.

“Thank God.”

There was nothing unusual about it. In fact, we all have heard and said it a lot all our lives.

But a very strange question struck me.

Had this phrase evolved from being genuine gratitude that was heartfelt in earnest, to a meaningless expression repeated out of habit ? 

If one were to really feel that way, it would mean one resigns to the fact that good things that happen despite human error are the action of God- or as some like me would believe, some supernatural force that ensures a balance in this universe. And this by extension, would mean that this force is the same that makes things go wrong despite our careful and well executed efforts.

So everyone who uses the phrase “Thank God”, ideally should believe that results are more than just about actions. And almost everyone uses it.

But do we really understand it ? Does each one of us truly understand what it means to accept circumstantial intervention and its power over our efforts ? 

In short, do we accept that while it is our duty to perform our actions to the best of our abilities with the most sincere of efforts, there is something else going on that can actually turn our world upside down ? 

Because if we do, disappointments fade and lives are more complete- with less regrets. We learn to take everything in our stride. We learn to understand that rewards are blessings, and problems an opportunity to grow. 

Make no mistake- I’m not saying it’s great to develop a very lethargic attitude in life. It’s important to give everything and fight to the end for a cause you believe in- else you have nothing to live for.But evaluation purely on results alone, could burn you out so soon that you miss out on experiencing the truly blissful journey that is life.

As someone rightly put it, goals aren’t about doing things, but becoming the kind of person who can do them. 

I’m reminded of something Harvey tells Mike in Suits

“Mike, you’re in the major leagues, and you get to go toe-to-toe with the best there is. And I can’t tell you if that’s enough for a lifetime, but if you want to stay, there’s nothing more you can do. My advice is hold on tight and enjoy the ride.”

I guess that’s true for all of us that want more to life than a grind that makes you want to kill yourself every single day.

So much for a coffee reunion, huh ?😛

 

 


Custody of the Past

Remembered amidst a moment’s bliss,

or across a lifetime of agony,

Where art thou, rarely missed one ?

a thought of power;

a source of strength.

or the scare of demise;

a harbinger of horror ?

Every true man’s identity,

and a false one’s dread.

A shadow in the land of no suns,

or a candle in fading moonlight ?

Abandoned lay all your slaves,

in a quest to exhume the within.

Impartial yet unsparing;

feared and awed in measure,

Why art thou so, my dear one ?

Always ringing in earshot,

the ghost of your laugh.

Always playing woo and pursue,

catching up with your victim

or Hero, as hopes the delusional dreamer.

To each his own, say the unaware-

while owned is the soul, you the liege.

 

 


Thus spake the wizard… and I heard him!

Hi Guys!

I know its been a really long time since I wrote, but in my defence I had a lot of things on my plate. I tried many a time to force myself to put down something, but then I didn’t want to push myself too hard. I needed to know if life was possible forever without writing, and the fact that I’ve come here without meaning to tells me I can’t- and that bit of self-discovery is probably worth the time I took off.

Well so what pushed me here ? It’s as usual, a few thoughts inside me that needed to be let out, so they don’t engulf and consume me!

I was talking to a friend, who recently told me a story of a man who was in search of the meaning of life. He wanted to know what life was about- and why so many of us face problems and suffering in life. Since I’m a big fan of Lord of the Rings, I’m just going to spice this up using character names from there😛 Lets call this guy Frodo.

So Frodo went in search of answers, and after travelling far and wide, one day landed at the home of an aged man who was said to be wise. His name was (as you might’ve guessed) Gandalf. Frodo said to Gandalf  “Sir, I have travelled far and wide in search of the answers to the puzzle that is life. I was told you are a very wise and experienced man in these matters. Can you give me the answer ?”

To this, Gandalf replied “Son, what is the specific question you seek to answer ?”

“Sir, I would like to understand why we suffer and struggle in life, and what is to be achieved by this.”

“Son, I will give you the answer, but I need you to do a task for me. There is this door that leads to the backyard of my house, and I need you to open it for me.”
Frodo tried his best to open the door, and upon finding it hard, gave up. The old man said “Son, this is very essential. Stay with me for a year, and keep trying. The day you open it you will find your answer”

Frodo then dutifully tried opening the door for the whole year, day in and day out, but of no avail. At the end, he went and told Gandalf  “Sorry Sir. I couldn’t do it”

To this, Gandalf said “No problem son, come with me.” He took Frodo to the other side of the door through another narrow pathway. On the other side was a huge hillock, which was blocking the door.

Frodo said, with anger “Sir, with all due respect, I think you have wasted a year of my life. There was no way I could have opened the door. I am deeply disappointed”

Gandalf said “Yes son. It was surely impossible to open the door. But if you take a look at your hands, you can see they have become a lot stronger due to all the effort and exercise. It is very similar in life- Many people struggle with problems and are disappointed if they do not achieve what they think is success. The point of the problem was never to solve it, but to transform yourself into someone better in the process of struggling with it. This is what life is about- continuously becoming a better individual by making use of what your pain, suffering and struggles teach you.”

Frodo stood transfixed, and thanked his old friend.

He was immensely overjoyed upon his experience, and turned to leave.

As he was leaving, the wise old man said “And one last thing son. In life, Success brings happiness, and conversely, happiness brings success. But one important thing to remember is that the success brought about by happiness stays for way longer than the happiness brought about by your success, simply because you don’t know what success is.”

“Remember, Life is a race, and you don’t know how many laps you run. So instead of worrying too much about who wins every lap, spend your time enjoying the run.”

I know this was a bit heavy and intense, but this made my day- it made me see so many things I did not earlier, and I thought it was only fair I put it by you.

 


Faith exists. But God?

 

I have guestblogged on the Alchemist’s blog (http://myworldrevolvesaroundyou.wordpress.com) .It is an overview of my way of looking at life, faith, philosophy, atheism…whatever you may call it. To know what I call it, click the link and read on🙂

Faith exists. But God?.


Happiness (Or the lack of it :P )

A couple of days ago, I was looking at a talk given by Dan Gilbert, a renowned Harvard psychologist, at TED. He was talking about happiness in general in human life, and about how happiness can not just be landed on by luck, but can be created as well. Being a psychologist, he gives scientific evidence at each step, the details of which I am NOT going to go into, though I did find the evidence very intriguing.

He introduced the concept of what he called synthetic happiness, which he said was different from the natural happiness we feel, but only in the way we “landed” upon it. Well, if that sounds complicated, it most certainly is not. It is just what wise men have been preaching for centuries – “If you do not get what you want, want what you get.” Many of us (me included😛 ) term that as a loser’s way of life.

But wait, I am having second thoughts about my stance. And if you shared my stance, hear me out before you start to assume I’m joining those ‘losers’.

Have you ever wondered how you figure out what you want ? I mean, when you said “That shirt looks nice. I want it.” Or “Wow! I love that watch”, did you ever stop to wonder why you found that shirt so awesome while your friend standing next to you could never disagree more ?

Well, Dan here tells us how it works. There is a part in your brain, (the details of which you can visit his talk video for) which simulates all our actions subconsciously, and this mentally gives us a rough estimate of how we will feel in a particular situation. But then,this means all we can figure is not whether we will be happy with something, but only if we THINK we will be happy with it before we actually get to it.  Since life is just a sequence of discoveries, and every endeavor is a new experience, you are never actually “settling” for something when you do not get what you want. You are merely going in for an experience different from the one you hoped for,not for one inferior in any way. Put the joy of the journey ahead of the story after the finish, and you don’t know, you might actually find that mystical feeling that people term as Happiness.

Thanks BlogBlueBlood, maybe I deviated quite a bit from what Dan hoped to convey, but he sure as hell made me see something I’m glad I did. For those who would like, Dan’s talk http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_asks_why_are_we_happy.html


Fun Tan seems to be a really good dark chocolate bar that I found in one of the dingy stores in a dark alley in a remote town that I’d never heard of before I got to know I was going to stay there for two months of my precious life. You know how I came to know it was good ? Well, I tasted it.😛

I figured out after dinner today. In fact, it was not just good, but even turned out to be a worthy and acceptable substitute for dessert. I came back disappointed after the jerk on the counter in the bakery told me the pastry I so badly needed after a heavy dinner was not for sale. I could barely stop myself from asking him ” My dear brainless git, please tell me before I do something I regret, why the hell did you keep it here with a price tag if it was not for sale ?”   Maybe the guy was just having problems with his wife, I thought to myself with a smirk.

So then I walked up to this shop which was down an alley to my left, in a hope to get something that always cheers me up no matter what happens – chocolate. The guy did not have any other brand, so I was forced to settle for Fun Tan, and I bought a bar worth ten bucks. It said dark chocolate, but I did not keep my hopes up.

Imagine my delight when it discovered that it indeed was chocolate ! I know it’s stupid for a nineteen year old to be surprised and delighted that a bar that read “chocolate” is actually made of chocolate, but in my defence, before you judge me, the prospect of chocolate oozing in your mouth, with the feel of its taste as you sink your teeth in a brick of chocolate is just entirely satisfying.

For those of you who are curious to know what exactly I am talking about, visit http://www.google.co.in/imgres?um=1&hl=en&sa=N&biw=1366&bih=611&tbm=isch&tbnid=z3zRcYEXNo-olM:&imgrefurl=http://www.campco.org/Webpages/Funtan.aspx&docid=QFeehA3LRtuUwM&imgurl=http://www.campco.org/uploads/Funtan.jpg&w=200&h=200&ei=SGb0T6mWK8jOrQe44dTJBg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=364&vpy=170&dur=419&hovh=160&hovw=160&tx=123&ty=53&sig=106083458931133089254&page=1&tbnh=126&tbnw=148&start=0&ndsp=22&ved=1t:429,r:1,s:0,i:76

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